“Are you genuinely loved or are you loved because of what you have?” Have you come across this statement somewhere? I have seen it pretty often on social media. Every time I see it am baffled by the ignorance demonstrated in that statement. Truth be told nobody is loved for nothing and nobody just loves. […]

“My second son is too emotional” she said. What do you mean by emotional? I asked. “He cries too often” She responded. “Let him cry” I said. “No, he needs to toughen up he is a man” She said. I have always had a different opinion when it comes to allowing men or boys express […]

“You should pick a gift for her, it’s almost valentines.” She said as we walked away from the lunch table. “I do not celebrate valentines; I do not want to feel obligated to buy gifts on a certain day.” He said. Could his sentiments be valid? This month comes with a lot of expectations and […]

When is the last time you experienced unexplained joy or happiness? I am not talking about laughing. There is a big difference. Am talking about days of joy oozing fresh from deep down your heart. A sense of happiness that you cannot immediately explain or give someone else credit for. If you have not experienced […]